CHAP. XXIX. The Parson with his Church-Wardens.

THe Countrey Parson doth often, both publickly, and
privately instruct his Church-Wardens, what a great
Charge lyes upon them, and that indeed the whole order and
discipline of the Parish is put into their hands. If himselfe
reforme any thing, it is out of the overflowing of his Con-
science, whereas they are to do it by Command, and by Oath.
Neither hath the place its dignity from the Ecclesiasticall
Laws only, since even by the Common Statute-Law they are
taken for a kinde of Corporation, as being persons enabled
by that Name to take moveable goods, or chattels, and to sue,
and to be sued at the Law concerning such goods for the use
and profit of their Parish: and by the same Law they are to
levy penalties for negligence in resorting to church, or for
disorderly carriage in time of divine service. Wherefore the
Parson suffers not the place to be vilified or debased, by being
cast on the lower ranke of people; but invites and urges the
best unto it, shewing that they do not loose, or go lesse, but
gaine by it; it being the greatest honor of this world, to do
God and his chosen service; or as David says, to be even a
door-keeper in the house of God. Now the Canons being the
Church-wardens rule, the Parson adviseth them to read, or
hear them read often, as also the visitation Articles, which
are grounded upon the Canons, that so they may know their
duty, and keep their oath the better; in which regard, con-
sidering the great Consequence of their place, and more of
their oath, he wisheth them by no means to spare any, though
never so great; but if after gentle, and neighbourly admoni-
tions they still persist in ill, to present them; yea though they
be tenants, or otherwise ingaged to the delinquent: for their
obligation to God, and their own soul, is above any temporall
tye. Do well, and right, and let the world sinke.

For more on the office of Churchwarden see this wikipedia entry.

A wise minister encourages and builds up the congregation’s lay officers. I believe that for most congregations the strength of the Church is in the lay leadership. Granted, the minister plays a large role in developing those leaders, but for the long term health of a congregation, the people who make decisions about finances, building and calling a pastor are crucial. It might be different in other contexts and polities, but from what I’ve seen presbyterian congregations can easily survive an incompetent pastorate, but a lack of leadership from the elders is fatal.

Herbert’s advice to instruct the wardens in public might seem counter-intuitive. But when we remind the lay officers of their duty from the pulpit we also remind the congregation of their importance and responsibilities. When we are greeted after the service every Sunday and given pastor appreciation celebrations, we need to remind everyone publicly of the crucial ministry of lay officers and express appreciation for their work.

Some questions for thought: Do you make prayers for you church officers a part of the church’s prayer concerns? Do you express the respect due to their office as you would expect for the office of minister? Do you preach or teach about the responsibilities of your officers? If your church has a special way to show appreciation for elders, deacons, wardens, lay leader etc… let us know.

(Image: Church Doors by pehedeges: click image for flickr page)

CHAP. XXVIII. The Parson in Contempt.

THe Countrey Parson knows well, that both for the generall ignominy which is cast upon the profession, and much more for those rules, which out of his choysest judgment hee hath resolved to observe, and which are described in this Book, he must be despised; because this hath been the portion of God his Master, and of Gods Saints his Brethren, and this is foretold, that it shall be so still, until things be no more. Neverthelesse, according to the Apostles rule, he endeavours that none shall despise him; especially in his own Parish he suffers it not to his utmost power; for that, where contempt is, there is no room for instruction. This he procures, first by his holy and unblameable life; which carries a reverence with it, even above contempt. Secondly, by a courteous carriage, & winning behaviour: he that wil be respected, must respect; doing kindnesses, but receiving none; at least of those, who are apt to despise: for this argues a height and eminency of mind, which is not easily despised, except it degenerate to pride. Thirdly, by a bold and impartial reproof, even of the best in the Parish, when occasion requires: for this may produce hatred in those that are reproved, but never contempt either in them, or others. Lastly, if the contempt shall proceed so far as to do any thing punishable by law, as contempt is apt to do, if it be not thwarted, the Parson having a due respect both to the person, and to the cause, referreth the whole matter to the examination, and punishment of those which are in Authority, that so the sentence lighting upon one, the example may reach to all. But if the Contempt be not punishable by Law, or being so, the Parson think it in his discretion either unfit, or bootelesse to contend, then when any despises him, he takes it either in an humble way, saying nothing at all; or else in a slighting way, shewing that reproaches touch him no more, then a stone thrown against heaven, where he is, and lives; or in a sad way, grieved at his own, and others sins, which continually breake Gods Laws, and dishonour him with those mouths, which he continually fils, and feeds: or else in a doctrinall way, saying to the contemner, Alas, why do you thus? you hurt your selfe, not me; he that throws a stone at another, hits himseife; and so between gentle reasoning, and pitying, he overcomes the evill: or lastly, in a Triumphant way, being glad, and Joyfull, that he is made conformable to his Master; and being in the world as he was, hath this undoubted pledge of his salvation. These are the five shields, wherewith the Godly receive the darts of the wicked; leaving anger, and retorting, and revenge to the children of the world, whom anothers ill mastereth, and leadeth captive without any resistance, even in resistance, to the same destruction. For while they resist the person that reviles, they resist not the evill which takes hold of them, and is farr the worse enemy.
One of the things that caught me off guard when I was fresh out of seminary was when I discovered some people did not like me simply because I was a minister. I could understand someone not liking something I had done or being annoyed at my personality or the way I do things, but I discovered that some people seem to hold the parson in contempt simply for being a minister. I thought about the lousy things ministers and churches do and know that there are plenty of good reasons hurt people might dislike pastors. I also discovered that some people are angry at God, some are under conviction and lash out at anything that has to do with God — as painful as this can be, it really is a blessing to be the object of anger when it is because you are, as Herbert would say, a deputy of Christ.
Herbert reminds us that some contempt and bad feelings towards us is unavoidable and simply part of the Christian life. However, we are to do what we can to make sure we don’t deserve bad feelings by being genuine (hypocrisy among the clergy has always been a major stumbling block) and impartial and respectful of others. The closing remarks of this chapter I take as a reminder that while a minister should be humble and realize that we will at time be the object of someone’s anger, we are still have self-respect, and more importantly respect for the office we hold, to stand up to unjust acts and words. I know in my own ministry, strong confrontation has won me the respect needed to be heard and has been a tool God has used in conversion.

CHAP. XXVII. The Parson in mirth.

THe Countrey Parson is generally sad, because hee knows nothing but the Crosse of Christ, his minde being defixed on it with those nailes wherewith his Master was: or if he have any leisure to look off from thence, he meets continually with two most sad spectacles. Sin, and Misery; God dishonoured every day, and man afflicted. Neverthelesse, he somtimes refresheth himselfe, as knowing that nature will not bear everlasting droopings, and that pleasantnesse of disposition is a great key to do good; not onely because all men shun the company of perpetuall severity, but also for that when they are in company, instructions seasoned with pleasantnesse, both enter sooner, and roote deeper. Wherefore he condescends to humane frailties both in himseife and others; and intermingles some mirth in his discourses occasionally, according to the pulse of the hearer.

In all the serious work of ministry, Herbert reminds us that a continually somber character is a drawback. Dealing with sin and pain, sickness and death there are times we can be tempted to melancholy, but there is a hope and joy we proclaim that must shine through in all that we do.

Although not directly related (Herbert is discussing how we express ‘mirth’ with others in what we do.), C. H. Spurgeon had a good essay on why ministers can be prone to depression and how they should deal with their ‘Fainting Fits’. Read it here.

(Image: Allsboro Cumberland Presbyterian Church by John Hayes)

The Parson’s Eye (Commentary)

In this chapter Herbert recommends that a Pastor takes time to reflect on his parishioners, particularly to consider sins that would not be so obvious.  I find three things particularly insightful.

  • We should take time away, regularly, from doing  work in our church to think and pray and reflect on things.  Herbert knows we need distance and quiet to consider some things.  This probably goes against our natural instinct to work, do things and be active, but we need to make time to reflect on things so that we can be sure our work and action is in the right direction.
  • Herbert has a pretty extensive treatment of some aspects of moral theology here.  He reminds us that there are some sins in our people’s lives that are not obvious, but are no less sinful and corrupting.  It is so easy for us to notice some sins and dismiss others — the gluttonous preacher denouncing alcohol.  I find it interesting that Herbert reminds us of this so that the lesser obvious sins such as covetousness can be treated pastorally as well as adultery.
  • Like all good pastoral theologians, he points out the need to apply the rules of morality and administer pastoral care in ways that match the specific situation.  Since the early church, good pastors have recognized the need to adjust their care to the individual; there’s no ‘one size fits all’ approach to pastoral ministry.

So a challenge for fellow pastors: take some time this week to reflect on the life and direction of your congregation.  I find it helpful at times to drive around our community trying to be attentive to what’s going on inside the houses of those living here.  Prayerfully consider the things that aren’t obvious and pray for direction.  Stand on the hill and consider your flock.

CHAP. XXVI. The Parson’s eye.

This week’s chapter from George Herbert’s The Country Parson is a longer one, I’ll post the full thing today, commentary will follow later.

THe Countrey Parson at spare times from action, standing on a hill, and considering his Flock, discovers two sorts of vices, and two sorts of vicious persons. There are some vices, whose natures are alwayes deer, and evident, as Adultery, Murder, Hatred, Lying, &c. There are other vices, whose natures, at least in the beginning, are dark and obscure: as Covetousnesse, and Gluttony. So likewise there are some persons, who abstain not even from known sins; there are others, who when they know a sin evidently, they commit it not. It is true indeed, they are long a knowing it, being partiall to themselves, and witty to others who shall reprove them from it. A man may be both Covetous, and Intemperate, and yet hear Sermons against both, and himselfe condemn both in good earnest: and the reason hereof is, because the natures of these vices being not evidently discussed, or known commonly, the beginnings of them are not easily observable: and the beginnings of them are not observed, because of the suddain passing from that which was just now lawfull, to that which is presently unlawfull, even in one continued action. So a man dining, eats at first lawfully; but proceeding on, comes to do unlawfully, even before he is aware; not knowing the bounds of the action, nor when his eating begins to be unlawfull. So a man storing up mony for his necessary provisions, both in present for his family, and in future for his children, hardly perceives when his storing becomes unlawfull: yet is there a period for his storing, and a point, or center, when his storing, which was even now good, passeth from good to bad. Wherefore the Parson being true to his businesse, hath exactly sifted the definitions of all vertues, and vices; especially canvasing those, whose natures are most stealing, and beginnings uncertaine. Particularly, concerning these two vices, not because they are all that are of this dark, and creeping disposition, but for example sake, and because they are most common, he thus thinks: first, for covetousnes, he lays this ground: Whosoever when a just occasion cals, either spends not at all, or not in some proportion to Gods blessing upon him is covetous. The reason of the ground is manifest, because wealth is given to that end to supply our occasions. Now, if I do not give every thing its end, I abuse the Creature, I am false to my reason which should guide me, I offend the supreme Judg, in perverting that order which he hath set both to things, and to reason. The application of the ground would be infinite; but in brief, a poor man is an occasion, my countrey is an occasion, my friend is an occasion, my Table is an occasion, my apparell is an occasion: if in all these, and those more which concerne me, I either do nothing, or pinch, and scrape, and squeeze blood undecently to the station wherein God hath placed me, I am Covetous. More particularly, and to give one instance for all, if God have given me servants, and I either provide too little for them, or that which is unwholsome, being sometimes baned meat, sometimes too salt, and so not competent nourishment, I am Covetous. I bring this example, because men usually think, that servants for their mony are as other things that they buy, even as a piece of wood, which they may cut, or hack, or throw into the fire, and so they pay them their wages, all is well. Nay, to descend yet more particularly, if a man hath wherewithall to buy a spade, and yet hee chuseth rather to use his neighbours, and wear out that, he is covetous. Nevertheless, few bring covetousness thus low, or consider it so narrowly, which yet ought to be done, since there is a Justice in the least things, and for the least there shall be a judgment. Country people are full of these petty injustices, being cunning to make use of another, and spare themselves: And Scholers ought to be diligent in the observation of these, and driving of their generall Schoole rules ever to the smallest actions of Life; which while they dwell in their bookes, they will never finde; but being seated in the Countrey, and doing their duty faithfully, they will soon discover: especially if they carry their eyes ever open, and fix them on their charge, and not on their preferment. Secondly, for Gluttony, the parson lays this ground: He that either for quantity eats more then his health or imployments will bear, or for quality is licorous after dainties, is a glutton; as he that eats more then his estate will bear, is a Prodigall; and hee that eats offensively to the Company, either in his order, or length of eating, is scandalous and uncharitable. These three rules generally comprehend the faults of eating, and the truth of them needs no proofe: so that men must eat neither to the disturbance of their health, nor of their affairs, (which being overburdened, or studying dainties too much, they cannot wel dispatch) nor of their estate, nor of their brethren. One act in these things is bad, but it is the custome and habit that names a glutton. Many think they are at more liberty then they are, as if they were Masters of their health, and so they will stand to the pain, all is well. But to eat to ones hurt, comprehends, besides the hurt, an act against reason, because it is unnaturall to hurt ones self; and this they are not masters of. Yet of hurtfull things, I am more bound to abstain from those, which by mine own experience I have found hurtfull, then from those which by a Common tradition, and vulgar knowledge are reputed to be so. That which is said of hurtfull meats, extends to hurtfull drinks also. As for the quantity, touching our imployments, none must eat so as to disable themselves from a fit discharging either of Divine duties, or duties of their calling. So that if after dinner they are not fit (or unweeldy) either to pray, or work, they are gluttons. Not that all must presently work after dinner; (For they rather must not work, especially Students, and those that are weakly,) but that they must rise so, as that it is not meate or drinke that hinders them from working. To guide them in this, there are three rules: first, the custome, and knowledg of their own body, and what it can well disgest: The second, the feeling of themselves in time of eating, which because it is deceitfull; (for one thinks in eating, that he can eat more, then afterwards he finds true:) The third is the observation with what appetite they sit down. This last rule joyned with the first, never fails. For knowing what one usually can well disgest, and feeling when I go to meat in what disposition I am, either hungry or not, according as I feele my self, either I take my wonted proportion, or diminish of it. Yet Phisicians bid those that would live in health, not keep an uniform diet, but to feed variously, now more, now lesse: And Gerson, a spirituall man, wisheth all to incline rather to too much, then to too little; his reason is, because diseases of exinanition are more dangerous, then diseases of repletion. But the Parson distinguisheth according to his double aime, either of Abstinence a morall vertue, or Mortification a divine. When he deals with any that is heavy, and carnall; he gives him those freer rules: but when he meets with a refined, and heavenly disposition, he carryes them higher, even somtimes to a forgetting of themselves, knowing that there is one, who when they forget, remembers for them; As when the people hungred and thirsted after our Saviours Doctrine, and tarryed so long at it, that they would have fainted, had they returned empty, He suffered it not; but rather made food miraculously, then suffered so good desires to miscarry.

Edit: Image removed, I thought it had been released under creative commons license.

CHAP. XXV. The Parson punishing.

WHensoever the Countrey Parson proceeds so farre as to call in Authority, and to do such things of legall opposition either in the presenting, or punishing of any, as the vulgar ever consters for signes of ill will; he forbears not in any wise to use the delinquent as before, in his behaviour and carriage towards him, not avoyding his company, or doing any thing of aversenesse, save in the very act of punishment: neither doth he esteem him for an enemy, but as a brother still, except some small and temporary estrangling may corroborate the punishment to a better subduing, and humbling of the delinquent; which if it happily take effect, he then comes on the faster, and makes so much the more of him, as before he alienated himselfe; doubling his regards, and shewing by all means, that the delinquents returne is to his advantage.

Most of us I would guess are put off by the title of this chapter — A minister punishing a parishioner? Doesn’t that represent the overbearing, abusive attitude of a Medieval mindset that placed clergy over and above ‘regular’ clergy?

All of our predecessors agreed, the Church and her officers are called to discipline. In my own polity (Presbyterianism) this is always done through courts consisting of ministers and representatives of the congregation, but in any structure Discipline, is part of the work of the Church’s ministry along with Word and Sacrament. Before I go further I should clarify: the Church as a voluntary organization only has authority to discipline those who have willingly submitted themselves to discipline by becoming a member of a local congregation, furthermore discipline in the church ultimately is excluding someone from membership — some examples of punishment in a Church would be not allowing someone to hold positions of leadership, requiring counselling or forbidding someone from receiving the Lord’s Supper.

There is an honesty in Herbert discussing punishment. I have seen Churches in effect punish parishioners without having the decency to admit what they were doing. Compare what Herbert calls for to how difficulties are dealt with in some modern Churches.

For Herbert if someone in the Church causes problems you are to be open and confront the sinner. In calling it discipline you obligate the Church to follow rules set down in their constitution and give the offender due rights to explain and defend themselves. Herbert says afterwards you are not to treat the person differently than before, the goal of discipline is to restore a brother or sister. The relationship should continue as before, welcoming the restored parishioner back into the community.

What I often see in Churches today is no one dares use the term discipline lest we seem authoritarian or mean. However pastors still deal with those who cause trouble or live in notorious sin. Without facing with the issues formally people are denied the right to defend themselves, it also allows people to be punished without a clear ‘charge’ but only a personal dislike. The tendency in the modern form of ‘discipline’ is to substitute gossip and secret discussions for the open meetings true discipline would require. Instead of pronouncing a censor on sin, many contemporary Churches and Pastors punish (without having the courage to call it that) in the very way Herbert says not to — by avoiding, excluding and ignoring a brother or sister.

It seems much more Biblical to deal with problems openly and honestly in an effort to restore a member to full Church membership.

(Image: Church in the storm by Slack12)

MSgt Harmon C. Hastings: 1910-1945

Ministering in a rural area gives me interesting opportunities, this weekend I participated in a memorial service for a soldier who was lost behind enemy lines in World War II.

His nephew, who has been keeping up the small family cemetery that is on a hill overlooking a branch of the Tennessee river, wanted to put up a monument to him and as he researched it and planned things discovered that there had never been a memorial service for him.  So this past Saturday his family and friends  (few of whom knew Harmon Hastings) gathered in this country cemetery, accompanied by an honor guard to remember his sacrifice.

The local paper did an article on it. 

CHAP. XXIV. The Parson arguing.

THe Countrey Parson, if there be any of his parish that hold strange Doctrins, useth all possible diligence to reduce them to the common Faith. The first means he useth is Prayer, beseeching the Father of lights to open their eyes, and to give him power so to fit his discourse to them, that it may effectually pierce their hearts, and convert them. The second means is a very loving, and sweet usage of them, both in going to, and sending for them often, and in finding out Courtesies to place on them; as in their tithes, or otherwise. The third means is the observation what is the main foundation, and pillar of their cause, whereon they rely; as if he be a Papist, the Church is the hinge he turnes on; if a Schismatick, scandall. Wherefore the Parson hath diligently examined these two with himselfe, as what the Church is, how it began, how it proceeded, whether it be a rule to it selfe, whether it hath a rule, whether having a rule, it ought not to be guided by it; whether any rule in the world be obscure, and how then should the best be so, at least in fundamentall things, the obscurity in some points being the exercise of the Church, the light in the foundations being the guide; The Church needing both an evidence, and an exercise. So for Scandall: what scandall is, when given or taken; whether, there being two precepts, one of obeying Authority, the other of not giving scandall, that ought not to be preferred, especially since in disobeying there is scandall also: whether things once indifferent, being made by the precept of Authority more then indifferent, it be in our power to omit or refuse them. These and the like points hee hath accurately digested, having ever besides two great helps and powerfull perswaders on his side; the one, a strict religious life; the other an humble, and ingenuous search of truth; being unmoved in arguing, and voyd of all contentiousnesse: which are two great lights able to dazle the eyes of the misled, while they consider, that God cannot be wanting to them in Doctrine, to whom he is so gracious in Life.

Herbert here is advising ministers how to deal with erroneous doctrine in the church.  When I first saw the title I was expecting a chapter on church conflict, but by arguing he means rationally debating and convincing parishioners of his point.  Herbert deals with the debates of his day, centered on the nature of the Church, but his advice would do well for dealing with any wrong beliefs.

1. Pray for the parishioner.  The work of the Holy Spirit is ultimately what convinces of truth, not our cleverness.

2. Don’t cut yourself off from them but instead show them love and spend time with them.  It can be difficult, but I wonder how many transformations could have been made in people’s lives through persistent, even  stubborn love.  (I had a friend in our youth group who had been influenced by someone at work, when he brought these questions and concerns to our minister he was told if he believed like that he could go to the church down the road.  That friend is no longer in church.  I wonder how it would have been if the pastor would have taken a little extra time with him and explained his beliefs and showed some extra attention.)

3. Find the root of the difficulty and deal with it.  So often the issue that is brought to us is more of a ‘symptom’ of a deeper and more fundamental problem or misunderstanding.  A common issue I face is with the question of infant baptism.  Often times when people have questions over the validity of infant baptism, when I discuss it with them I find that the concern is that in baptizing babies they worry that we are proclaiming that infants are guaranteed salvation because of the sacrament.   (Of course this isn’t the issue with everyone.)   Often the real difficulty  is not with the sacrament but with the need for repentance and faith is salvation.  Once the root is found the real issue can be dealt with more fruitfully.

Herbert offers good advice for pastorally dealing with error in the church.  Of course it assumes that there is Truth and that therefore error is possible.   I believe, from Herbert’s examples, that he would also make a distinction between errors that need confrontation, and those of lesser importance.  Not everything is fundamental or even disruptive.  A good pastor must know truth from error and also be able to distinguish fundamental dogma from mere opinions.

(Picture by McMorr)